话题：同志交友那些事

很多人都认为同性爱是真爱，但是对于真爱的定义，各有不同。或许一场说来就来的419对于一些同志朋友而言，就是真爱，海枯石烂，至死不渝的爱情也是真爱！各有千秋，就看你的定义是什么。

（With a lot of people think sex is love, but for the definition of true love, is different. Perhaps a speaking to 419 for some gay friends, is true love, the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, to die of love is love! What is the definition of each has his strong point, see you.）

对于同志群体特殊的爱，思想，社会等很多因素给了很大的压力，虽然gay在古代时已经有记载，即便这样，最近几年才慢慢被社会关注！只有少部分国家和地区出示了同志相关的政策。这个是值得庆幸的。

（For the gay community special love, thought, many factors such as social gave a lot of pressure, although gay has recorded in ancient times, even so, in recent years gradually attention by the society! Only a few countries and areas presented the comrade relevant policies. This is thankfully.）

同志交友难，其实有原因：

Gay dating difficult, there are reasons:

很多人抱怨，现在不比以前，同志数量在增加，有了相应的政策，为什么还是找不到一个一起生活的人呢？

（Now than before, many people complain about, comrade number increases, the corresponding policy, why still can’t find a life together?）

1.很多人不敢面对自己喜欢同性，自身是不接受的，更别说接受别人，所以，没有加入到同志行列；

（1. Many people dare not face yourself like gay, itself is not acceptable, let alone accept others, so no comrade to join the ranks;）

2.已婚的同志居多，已婚的同志内心是很纠结的，有家庭，有孩子，要考虑很多东西，在这种环境中，选择了419，或者精神恋；

（2. Married comrades, married gay heart is very tangled, have a family, have children, want to consider a lot of things, in this environment, chose 419, or the spirit of love;）

3.择偶类型：中青恋，老少恋，少少恋，老老恋，少幼恋……..如果用排除法可以得出，能互相喜欢的很有局限性；

（3. The mating type: middle love and love, old and young, little love, just love and love little baby… If used deduction can draw, can love each other very limited;）

4.不为感情，为金钱，长得帅，又有钱，有实力，自然桃花运满满的,不具备的朋友也不要气馁。（有些人可能会对此条产生反感，请勿对号入座，可以忽视之…）

（4. Not for love, for money, grow handsome, and rich, powerful, natural desires of the heart, do not have friends and don’t be discouraged. (some people may produce antipathy to this article, please do not reserved seats, can ignore…）

5.卖艺不卖身，只谈钱不谈情，让你疯狂的爱上，却让你得不到，只有疯狂的让你“怒刷存在感”，看你冷漠了，随便调调你胃口；（此处可有伪同））

（5.Busk not prostitution, only talk about money don’t talk about feeling, make you crazy in love with, but let you get, only crazy let you brush sense “” anger, see your indifference, casual tone your appetite; (the same here to have false)）

6.纯聊天，不交友，不谈感情，不419

（6. Pure chat, not dating, don’t talk about feelings, not 419）

大体列举了占大多数的，小部分的就不列举了！MB是种职业，有真gay，也有假gay，目的很明确，就不算在里面了。这样算下来，你能找到的几率是不是变小了？所以，不要急，慢慢来，着急很容易沦陷的。

（General Outlines, the majority of minor is not listed! MB is a kind of occupation, a true gay, also false gay, the purpose is very clear, isn’t in it. So, you can find a smaller chance? So, don’t worry, slowly to, worry is very easy to fall.）

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前几天，有个朋友和小编聊天，说起了自己的交友经历，虽然生活中走进了好几个人，但是都没有逗留太久，他把原因都放在了自己身上，其实不然，小编总结了下，这位朋友交友有误区：

（A few days ago, a friend chat with small make up, talking about his own dating experience, although life into several people, but did not stay too long, he put all the reasons, actually otherwise, small make up are summarized, the friend dating have misconceptions:）

1.交友盲目，根本没有确定对方是要在一起还是身体得到满足，就决定同床共枕，但是新鲜感过了，人家还会留下来？几次对比，此条出现的比较多；

（1. Dating blindly, not sure the other is to be together or body satisfaction, decided to bed, but the novelty, the somebody else will stay? A few times, this appears more;）

2.急迫，他和小编讲，自己未婚，一个人在外面拼搏，又不想找女朋友，感觉生活很乏味，有时候会突然特别想找个人陪，有这种想法的时候，就会立刻到交友网或者其它平台疯狂的找，只有有人回应，就。。。。这个不说也懂

（2. Urgent, he and small make up, not married, a person struggle in the outside, don’t want to find a girlfriend, feel life is boring, sometimes will suddenly looking for someone to accompany in particular, have this idea, immediately to the dating sites or other platforms crazy, only someone response,… This not also understand）

这只是根据网友的情况分析的，交友还是应该保持自己的底线！别人不能跨越这条底线，自己也不行；

（This is just a situation analysis, according to online, make friends should keep their bottom line! People can’t cross the line, and she is not;）

[v_notice]交友切记：

（Dating remember:）

莫心急，莫盲目，感情该来自然来；

（Don’t worried, don’t blindly, feeling the come naturally;）

莫为脸，莫为财，幸福生活拥进怀；

（Don’t to face, don’t for money, happy life with new arrivals;）

莫争吵，莫打闹，共同创造好未来；

（Don’t quarrel, don’t play, create good future together;）

交善友，结良缘，善缘良友才是财；

（Make good friends, and good marriage, good friend is the wealth;）

不玩弄，不欺骗，欺世盗名最悲哀；

（Don’t play with, don’t cheat, ripoff the sorrow.）

讲是非，破人缘，身败名裂来得快；

（As fast as gossip, popularity, reputation;）

不攀比，不嫉妒，攀比定把自己害。

（No comparison, no envy, compare hurt himself.）[/v_notice]

好了，到这里结束了，套用一句老话：“骑白马的不一定是王子，还可能是杂技演员”！用心坦诚的去找，一定会找到好，互相喜欢的！

（Ok, here is over, to paraphrase the old saying: “riding a white horse prince is not necessarily, also may be acrobat”! Frank went to attentively, will find a good, love each other!）

[v_error]英文翻译为机器自动翻译，能看懂中文的就别在意英文了！会很蛋疼的。
（English translation for machine automatic translation, can understand Chinese don’t care about English! It will be a great hurt）[/v_error]